Question
As-Salamu `Alaykum.
I always feel bored and sad. This feeling began with me before marriage. Then I got married and I did not feel comfortable even though I love my husband very much and he also loves me. I am crying bitterly and he keeps on asking me about the reason but I have no answer because I don’t know why. Weeks keep on passing while I’m crying and this matter is vexing my husband, taking into consideration that I do not enjoy intimate with him and always feel guilty and dissatisfied with myself. This whole situation hurts me a lot. I have been married for two years. Could you kindly help me?
Answer
Wa `Alaykum As-Salam Warahmatullah.
Dear valued sister,
I have read your letter with interest and I can feel your pain from which I ask Allah to relieve you.
Obviously, you are suffering depression which is a common disease from which about one fifth of women worldwide are suffering, and it is out of your hand.
The good news is that the treatment of this disease is easy and accessible. Thanks to Allah, nowadays Allah granted us due to the scientific revolution some useful medications with no side effects and do not cause addiction. You will feel better after few days of taking these medications.
You should not wait more, rely on Allah, follow the proper means, and visit a psychiatrist as soon as possible because you have the right to treat yourself when you feel sick, so do not delay.
Be confident in Allah and rely on Him, may Allah guide you to the best.
